Ramona Singer- Mario Was Controlling My Behavior
Fans of the Real Housewives of New York City were a bit confused why Ramona Singer wouldn’t discuss her marital problems on the reunion. Now Ramona has taken to her blog and completely opened up.
She writes, “Well everyone it’s an end to Season 6. Little did I know until we finished filming several weeks later in October that my husband was having an affair. Little did I know I was the last one to find out. I was shocked beyond words. When I filmed the reunion Mario and I had reconciled only the month before. I so wanted to try to get our relationship back on track. Mario was extremely adamant about me not speaking about our relationship and his infidelity. This is so not who I am — I always speak freely on all subjects. I was allowing my husband to control my behavior.”
She continued, “Yes it was not filmed on the show, but it is still, as Andy said, part of my current reality. I must say I was not as respectful as I should of been to Andy. I also now understand what LuAnn went through and should have been more kind to her no matter how she pushed my buttons.”
Ramona discussed more, writing, “Having your husband betray you is the worst feeling in the world, and I wish it on no one. How ironic that last week during Reunion Part 2 when I was protecting my husband and not being polite to Andy, just the week before I kicked Mario out and it came out in the press a day later, August 6. So I am opening up now about why I was not candid as I should have been. Yes Andy all the women on the show, including LuAnn, were supportive of my situation with Mario. My friends were also. Without them I would never have been able to handle what I was going through. I thank all my fellow Housewives for their support and continued support.”
She wrapped up with saying, “I feel like I was emotionally bruised for the past five months by Mario. I felt at times as if I was walking on eggshells. We were working with a marriage counselor. I was in a fragile state.”
We really feel for Ramona and respect her for opening up in this blog. What do you think? Let us know.
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Homer Simpson
August 15, 2014 at 02:55
I think Ramona is a wonderful woman. Until you have been ambushed by infidelity you cannot even begin to understand the negative impact it has on you. It is embarrassing, debilitating, humiliating to say the least. The lies of betrayal never end, even as I divorce my husband and he is still with his whore he continues to lie to his 80yr old mother, his children, his family and sadly himself. He steals time away from his children to fly from Michigan to LA, and she does the same for a roll in the hay rather than come clean and take their kids someplace. The web they create by betrayal traps them and transforms them into demonic, evil, mean human beings. The bottom line regardless of what Mario, you or I feel about Ramona, and frankly I love and support her as a survivor of the ambush. The bottom line is if he was unhappy he should have left, especially after being caught plain and simple.
It is not okay to cheat over, and over again. We need to stop turning our heads to the devastation of infidelity and support the people that are devastated by it. We need to stop protecting cheaters from the shame and embarassment of their decision to cheat. Put the blame where the blame belongs on Mario and the whore, not Ramona she had no choice in any of it. He should have left, Period.