
Vicki Gunvalson Slams Tamra Judge In Explosive Blog Post
Explosive Post!
Last night The Real Housewives of Orange County had a new episode and, while it was a mostly tame episode, Vicki Gunvalson took to her blog to slam co-star Tamra Judge. What did she say about Judge? Read on for details.
Vicki Gunvalson Slams Tamra Judge In Explosive Blog Post
Here is what Gunvalson wrote about Judge:
“Watching Tamra talk with her mom about her lacking in communication skills is exactly what I have experienced with her as well. Tamra blaming everyone else and not taking accountability for her own actions is typical. I’m so tired of Tamra constantly talking about how I ATTACKED HER MARRIAGE’, because she knows it is the farthest thing from the truth. She is focused on this to attempt to get others to be on her side and to take the focus off of her own issues. The fact is the fact. I didn’t attack her marriage – I want her happy. But the truth is, I don’t want to continue to talk about it publically or privately because I don’t care one way or another. Tamra is the one who keeps bringing it up, not me. I don’t care about it – it’s dead to me.
It’s sad to me that Tamra’s relationship with her daughter ended four months after her marriage to Eddie. I did not know this until now and the fact that she said because of her life being so busy planning a wedding and dating Eddie, her kids suffered by not spending enough time with them. To me, nothing is more important than your children and in hindsight I’m sure she would have done things differently knowing what the outcome would be. I can attest to that myself on my own past.”
Later, Gunvalson added:
“Tamra tells Peggy she is happy. Clearly, anybody watching the episode can tell she is anything but happy. In the past, Tamra has been quick to say Kelly isn’t happy, which she claims is why Kelly lashes out. As usual, Tamra is projecting to attempt to influence others.
I am going to tread lightly here because, as Kelly and all of us know, when Tamra perceives somebody is ‘talking about her family’ she gets livid. However, since TAMRA MADE HER FAMILY ISSUES A FOCAL POINT, I think I understand how Tamra’s attitude, vitriol, and behavior towards ‘family’ affects our relationship. She seems to be always MAD all the time. If it’s not with me, it’s with someone else.
As Lydia stated, for most of our 10+ year relationship, Tamra and I were like family. Lydia is right. So, as Tamra explains herself, there is a pattern of ostracizing family when things don’t go her way. She admits she didn’t talk to her father for 10 years. Then she caught herself and modified that to say they talked occasionally. Who knows what the truth is there. At the risk of incurring Tamra’s wrath, yet again, I am going to point out what Tamra has highlighted, that she is ostracized from her daughter. I am not judging that or placing blame on anyone, just reiterating what Tamra has said. Now, with me, at one time her closest friends, her virtual sister, she is ostracizing me. Lashing out. Perpetuating her lie that I lied. Anything to hurt the person she perceives hurt her. Tamra said, “’n my head, Vicki is dead’. Sound familiar? What did I really do to her? Did my ex BF really have that much of an impact on her life? Is it life altering to her that I had a private conversation about Eddie with Kelly? Did I steal from her, murder someone or do something unethical? NO! I repeated a rumor that was already out there. Enough! Why can’t she let it go? DEFLECTION!!
When Tamra had her heartfelt phone conversation with her mom about the pain that comes from avoiding conflict and her desire to talk through difficult topics, I wish she would implement that in her life and learn from it. She talked about the heartache that comes from having a loved one shut you out of their life. She talked about wanting to break the pattern. She is right. She should listen to her heart and take her own advice. It made me sad, as I don’t think we should be in this place of so much anger towards each other.
Towards the end of the episode in the wake for her browbeating Peggy, Tamra says ‘she is pissed’. Then in the limo with Shannon when she is spinning what happened she repeats her big lie again, that I lied about ‘Brooks having cancer’. Why is she so fixated on this? I have explained over and over again about my past relationship with him and she doesn’t want to hear or listen to me. What benefit did I get by this so called ‘lie’? Hasn’t she read his statements that I HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM REVEALING HIS FALSE RECORDS…THAT WAS 100% HIS DOING. I have lost three loved ones in the recent past from cancer and it’s disgusting to hear her keep saying this. Well, now I’m pissed too. A lie about a lie is still a lie. I can’t figure out why they are SO fixated on him!! I am the one who was hurt, I am the one who lost time and money by dating him which I will never get back. They lost NOTHING on his shenanigans. I’ll never know why he did what he did, but it’s been over 2 1/2 years and I’m trying to move on. Every time I hear them mention his name it makes me sick to my stomach. MOVE ON!!!”
Still, later, Gunvalson adds:
“My sentiments to Tamra are this: Stop trying to turn my friends against me. Stop trying to destroy my life with your accusations. Stop projecting your insecurities and bitterness on me. Stop lying about me and please let’s move on!
I hope that Tamra sincerely starts trying to truly live the Christian life she professes she does. She needs to start by opening her heart, forgive, and put all this negativity behind and stop dwelling on things that are not true. Once she does, I am sure she will be much happier and then hopefully we can be back to being friends. I can have ‘hope’ now can’t I?”
Tell us- what do YOU think of what Gunvalson wrote? Are you on her side of Judge’s? Sound off in the comments below.
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Sad to say, but totally agree, its getting old. The rumours re Edsie where out the year he was introduced as her BF. All u have to do is google his name. It’s getting old real fast & to keep dragging this on another season is going to turn people off real quick.
What Vicki says about Tamra seems accurate to me. I’m not much of a fan of Tamra’s, but Vicki should also look at herself while writing these words.
I just about shit myself when Vicki took some accountability for her choosing Brooks over her children (I think it’s the closest she’s come to taking responsibility for anything!). Vicki is always playing the victim and I like her less than I like Tamra.
It’s no surprise that she hit it off with Kelly Dodd!
I feel as thou you and Tara are speaking very different languages. I’d leave her alone..totally. She and Shannon are dependent on one another..let it be. Shannon plays victim very well. I’d leave them both alone and focus on your new man who appears to be a gem. They could be jealous of your new life and successes
Well said Vicki
Life is too short! Start fresh from yes let’s be friends and move on! Everybody is so angry in the world! Stop be happy with what you have no matter how big or small.
A real Christian is forgiving and does not hold hatred. If Tamara is a true Christian she should be able to forgive and move on. Life is too short.
I agree with Vicky. Put the past where it belongs in the past. You 2 were such good friends. Forgive and forget. My heart goes out to Take a not having a relationship with her daughter. I feel her pain and can relate. Hope it all works out in the end for you Vicky and for Tamra as well. Life can be tough. We need my love and peace in the world especially now with all the hate and anger. I wish you both peace and harmony. ???
Sometimes people strike out because they can’t handle the guilt they feel. As you said she should of been by your side instead of saying you lied. You were lied to, your heart was broken. Hopefully things will get better between you two. Tread lightly, you are going to be hurt again by her.
Vicki, we all who have watch and loved you ladies can not believe how low you all are willing to go to make each other out to be immoral. You are suppose to be classy ladies. I’m shock to see how you all behave. But Vicki your own daughter tried to tell you what a loser he was. I personally could not believe HOW DUMB you were. But in all fairness Tamra you were out for you and not your kids or family. You are fame hungry and would do anything to make it. So you all need to STOP THROWING STONES AND GROW UP! There are much bigger problems in this world. To me you are both trying to be TOP DOG of the RHOC. And Shandon you will lose David if you don’t stop be a baby. My God all you do is whine. I liked you but you are insane and your behavior is horrible. STOP COMPLAINING and get on with your life No one can make you over eat. You ladies have money and could do good, live well. It’s sad, my son has traumatic brain injury I only wish I could have the money you guys have so I could take care of him. Just stop this. It’s not a good look for any of you…. Believe you me I’m no saint, then again I’m not airing my dirty laundry in public. Kelly you clearly don’t love your husband, the way you treat him. Ridiculous. AGAIN THOSE WHO LIVE IN GLASS HOUSE’S, SHOULDN’T THROW STONES. ALL OF YOU!
You have a right to move on vicki,they are just a bunch of “caddy women”who are a bunch of mean girls who don’t know how to move on.I think you should just move on to wanting to be friends with tamara because if you do become friends again it won’t ever be the same as it once was.I HOPE that you get what your wishing for you and tamara to be friends.And if I was you I would watch what you say to Kelly because she will go back and tell tamara,shannon,meghan what you said,I think she’s a loose cannon.I wish you you a lot of Love and happiness and hope that you and Steve stay together cause He’s really good for you.I see that you have changed some and you are a forgiving person.I Love that OG from the Oc girl.I wish you the best.God Bless You
I think Icky Vicki’s slip is showing- her little lap dog Kelly Dudd too. If u didn’t lie about cancer then why did u lie about Dr Dubrow coming to put an iv in your horrifically sick boyfriend – cause it never happened. None of it.
Thank You! C ant stand these two. When they come on I change the channel!
Vicki Gunvalson you are so full of S**T!!!!!!!!!!
I think Vikki knows she did wrong by mentioning that Tamara’s hubby is gay. If you keep saying these things enough people will start believing them. Plus I’m convinced she knew that her ex Brookes was lying about the Cancer. But who are we to judge people’s actions she had to live with them. I love the housewives but the bitchiness gets a bit much at times.
Vicky you just tell one lie after another. You are a despicable human being who forgot to mention you tried to sell fake cancer cures, fake bracelets etc etc. And what about all the pyramid schemes?
Vicky is a disgrace to the human race. Family first? Why stalk your kids on their dates? Why gate crash your son’s party? I need anti emetics just thinking of this stupid business woman.
Men should never come between best friends (sisters) married or notnot. Tamara needs to let it go.I Feel if it wasn’t for Eddie and Shannon u both would get past all this .We all know life is too short Let It Go
Men should never come between best friends (sisters) married or not. Tamara needs to let it go.I Feel if it wasn’t for Eddie and Shannon u both would get past all this .Life is too short
Men should never come between best friends (sisters) married not. Tamara needs to let it go.I Feel if it wasn’t for Eddie and Shannon u both would get past all this .
Men should never come between best friends (sisters) married or notnot. Tamara needs to let it go.I Feel if it wasn’t for Eddie and Shannon u both would get past all this .Life is too short
Tamra is such an attention seeker with her crocodile tears ? Being a true Christian pls don’t make me laugh she cares for no one but herself!
I hope Tamara can move on and forgive Vicki and start healing. They’ve been friends for too long. Forgive and forget.
I think Vicky is being horrible again.. after she carried on for years with a man who everyone including Tamera tried to help her by pointing out how bad a man he was. She has the audacity to keep lasting out.. these grown women need to suck it up and own their crap and be nice to one another……
Vicki, I think what is happening with Tamra is the old saying, “We always hurt most the ones we love.” Tamra does love you and that’s why she goes after you so often. Time will pass and she’ll do the right thing. Stop taking it personally. She’s on a path of destruction because of her pain. You’re the center of her attacks because she knows that you’ll take it and love her anyway. It doesn’t excuse the behavior at all; but it does explain it. Be the friend you’ve always been and you’ll both be ok in the end.
I think Vicki is spot on with this.
Tamra is clearly miserable and rightfully so. Tamra is hurting from her relationship with Sidney. Hurt people, hurt people.
Tamra has been attacking Vicki for years but more recently she claimed Vicki attacked her husband and her marriage, which is not true. Vicki repeated a rumor off camera to Kelly. She didn’t attack Tamra or Eddie. Tamra has done a lot worse to other housewives.
Tamra is not happy she is obsessive and miserable and her fake happy storyline is annoyingly obvious. Tamra has never been happy since she started on the show, she is full of envy and jealousy.
You said it all!!!!!! Way to go Vicki!!!! ???
I THINK VICKI HAS A LOT OF TIME ON HER HANDS!
All you people who side with Pricky Cuntvalson do remember all the HORRIBLE things she’s done, right?
You CAN’T tell me she didn’t know Brooks was lying about his Cancer. Also, when her Daughter told her about what Brooks was saying to her, and Pricky told her, to her face, that she didn’t believe her. Who does that kind of thing to their own Daughter? You can like her, but I think you ALL are disgusting if you do. SMH
Don’t like Vicki-but she is right about this.
Tamra is just as bad if not worse.
Just bc we agree with Vicki on this doesn’t mean we like her.
Vicki you always talk about what everyone says except yourself. I for one don’t believe that you didn’t know Brooks was lying. You used it as a story line to keep yourself relevant. I would be so happy if they removed you, Kelley and now Peggy from the show. I’m tired of hearing you Woo hoo. It is way past time for you to leave RH.
I find it ironic that Vicki poo poos every accusation about her and thinks she walks on water. It is shown on camera the conversations and accusations she has made. How can someone be so forgetful and cruel?
I feel sorry for both of these women.
Everyone has problems in their friendships, marriages, and family. Forgive, move on, and enjoy all that money you two have. Otherwise wire it all to me so my hardworking husband, myself, and our two kids can go on vacation and enjoy this beautiful thing called life.
Wouldn’t it have made more sense to shut down that guy at your party who was talking crap about Tamara’s husband. She said you knew they were not even friends anymore.. Also what kind of best friend goes around saying awful things like that That didn’t set any huge flashing red lights off for you. It seems you like to open the can of sh** and sit back and smell it.. Thats awful. For everyone who keeps saying isn’t a Christiana. It doesn’t say be a doormat anywhere in the bible.
I agree Vicki, it is silly and nonsense for Tamra to keep everything going. I love the way you handle yourself, you are a very classy lady. Very well said in your blog about Tamra.